How do I know if he loves me? When he wants me to be his gf he make time for me and send me morning and night messages and done everything to melt my heart. Now I am his gf and he don't treat me that way now.

In any relationship if there will be one sided expectations, sooner or later that will break. and with you it seems that rather than being exciting for him, you have been excited for the relations ship hangover (yeah..yeah I am also in a relationship now) kind-offs, to get it validated or to show off to your friends, parents, society etc.

Think over it……whetehr you want to step in or step out. because if you want to remain you have to step in and make efforts to get it to next level….For everything you cannot blame him.

Kindly try to put in your efforts and if you get tired imagine how much efforts he has taken to bring it to this level. Have you ever went on outing with him, kissed him, enjoyed his company, have sex with him, informed him what he should do to give you an orgazm while you are getting intimate with him or you ever tried to make him reach to climax……or is this love game STILL a puzzle for him?? make it more open ended & talkative/communicative

Jenny from Perth writes – my partner is the life of the party, women and men adore him. But at home, he gets angry at us for the silliest reasons and never nice words me or our kids, always putting us down. Should I stay or leave him?

Correct your expectations sweetheart!!!

what efforts have YOU made….?? it seems you expect ONLY him to add the spices to the relationship, without you having the need to do anything.

He made efforts to woo you, made you friend from a stranger, took to the next level by making you his gf….

My scammer is blackmailing me. If I don't pay 300 euros, he will send my intimate photos to my relatives. What should I do?

Stop behaving like cinderalla? you better come out of that relationship.